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perspective:'I'm not sharing a house with a man again': Weaponised incompetence ended Adelle's marriage

After three decades of living with weaponised incompetence, the final straw was coming home from holiday without a single picture of myself in our camera roll.
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Choking during sex can cause brain injuries but many young Australians are taking up the act

Non-fatal strangulation, or choking during sex, is becoming mainstream among young people in Australia — fuelled by pornography and popular culture. It's prompted concerns that those engaging in the practice are not aware of the serious health risks.
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When thieves took 94yo Doug's vintage Merc they stole his independence too

Retired farmer and mechanic Doug Marchant has had a rough run this month with his beloved vintage car stolen from outside his home, and then its replacement broke down more than 1,300km from home.
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Concerned about a mate's behaviour towards their partner? Here's how to handle it

It's "critically important" men look out for their friends and their friends' partners when it comes to domestic and family violence, experts say.
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This couple rewrote their marriage rules so they could see other people. Then they had to tell the kids

When Molly Roden Winter and her husband first dabbled in non-monogamy, it felt dangerous and exciting. They've now had an open marriage for over a decade, and it hasn't been without challenges. Telling the kids was one of them.
Molly Roden Winter and her husband stand close together smiling for a selfie with mountains and blue sky behind them.

Thailand becomes first South-East Asian country to legalise same sex marriage

Thailand's Senate approves a landmark bill allowing couples such as Anticha and Worawan to finally get married.
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perspective:We've never encountered a family like ours — but it works for us

People often think it's odd that my ex is still in our lives, despite not being my partner or my daughter's dad. Five years ago, I would have agreed with them.  
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Koraly Dimitriadis leans close to her daughter. Both smiling. Koraly's boyfriend is beside them and a lake is in the background.

'My ex pretended he couldn't pack a dishwasher': Readers share experiences with weaponised incompetence

Some readers expressed relief and validation to discover the behaviour of avoiding certain tasks or responsibility in the home had a name, while others felt it was more a matter of playing to our strengths in a relationship.
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When TV Neighbours become good friends: Study finds Neighbours fans grieved the series end

The peer-reviewed study found Neighbours fans felt a high level of grief emotions associated with the end of the series, and they had difficulty accepting that it had ended.
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'An enormous betrayal': Understanding financial infidelity

Financial infidelity can range from some "low-key sneaky spending" on clothing, through to racking up debt on a secret credit card, or gambling away savings.
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Has marriage become outdated in 2024? These Australians think so

From having babies on their own to choosing to be single, these Australians believe life isn't necessarily easier — or better — with a partner.
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'Convenient and effective': A new dating trend is taking off in China

Many young people in China are using live-streamed blind dates — with sometimes hundreds of people watching — to meet potential partners. 
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A successful monogamous relationship could involve month-long breaks — according to swans

A nearly two-decade study of birds living in Melbourne's Albert Park has revealed surprising relationship patterns between black swans.
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Your kid will grow up and probably grow away from you. Here's some tips on how to reconnect

Many children distance themselves from their parents as they grow up, but there are ways to reconnect with your tween/teen.
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Why lawyers say the 'bank of mum and dad' is driving demand for Australia's version of a prenup

Antoinette and her wife are joining a growing number of Australians seeking "prenups". Lawyers say the harsh economic climate and growing number of parents giving children money is driving more people to consider them.
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Explaining weaponised incompetence and how it 'keeps women busy' at home

Weaponised incompetence in relationships can keep women "locked into" traditional roles, experts say.
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A woman vacuuming the floors while a man sits on a couch and uses a laptop. The living room has plants and prints on the wall.

When Rachele fell for a colleague, she tried to repress her feelings. It didn't work

Workplace romances aren't uncommon, but what are the consequences for dating colleagues or even your boss? 
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Pastor Jon Owen needs six things to keep his mental health in check. Number one is NOT yoga

Jon Owen, the pastor of Sydney's Wayside Chapel, has spent decades caring for the broken, eschewing a comfortable life for one of radical compassion. He's learned he needs to commit to certain regular habits in order to protect his own mental health, writes Julia Baird.
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Wren lived in his walk-in-wardrobe for three months. He's what's known as a 'shut in'

Almost a quarter of a million South Koreans have withdrawn from the outside world. Meet two of them.
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Questions to ask a partner that can protect you from financial abuse

One in six women in Australia experience financial abuse. We share three ways that could increase your financial safety, including the questions you should ask a partner early in a relationship.
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A woman and man look over finances at their laptop while sitting at a dining table.

The cost-of-living crisis is changing our relationships. Here's what we can do about it

The cost-of-living crisis doesn't just impact what people can buy or where they can live; it impacts relationships, too — from children and partners, to friends to workmates.
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If the Hallmark version of Mother's Day feels like a punch in the gut, you're not alone

For many of us, Mother's Day is a time when our hearts are a bit sore. I miss my own mother so much. I miss her humour, her levity, her wisdom, and the way she made everything seem better. So how should we think about this day when grief is still fresh?
Grief educator Rebecca Feinglos, who has thick brunette hair, poses for a photo in a garden setting wearing a fawn coloured top

Eating after and exercising before: Sexologist's top tips for lovemaking in later years

Sexologist's research shows sex can get better as we age — and a lot of that is to do with prioritising intimacy, being generous, and working with what you've got.
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'Don't turn it into a comedy act': Celebrants share their best vow-writing tips

Celebrants say to "tune everyone else out" and write vows as though you are speaking directly to your partner.
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Jo is 42 and has never had sex. She regrets that no-one has enjoyed her body

Three women who have never had sex share their experiences of dating and intimacy, and how they can sometimes feel alone and adrift on a vast sea of gyrating hips and grinding bodies.
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